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6 hours ago
6 hours ago
"Creativity is our birthright." Author/Poet Maggie Smith
Do you notice in midlife that you have stories and wisdom to share but maybe you don't know how to express them on paper?
Our guest this week is NYT Best Selling Author and Poet, Maggie Smith. Maggie's new book, DEAR WRITER: Pep Talks & Practical Advice for the Creative Life, explains how to do it.
We discuss important ways to foster your creativity with the first one being, attention. Do you stop and pay attention to the "beauty emergencies" around you?
Learn ways to start or enhance your creativity in midlife.
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Book Link: DEAR MAGGIE
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6 days ago
6 days ago
We continue our conversation with the amazing actress Elizabeth Perkins.
From her start in theater to her iconic roles in Big, Miracle on 34th Street and Weeds, she shares how these characters changed the trajectory of her career. She also talks who was the original lead in Big, and it wasn't Tom Hanks.
Elizabeth has no intent on slowing down her career (even with her adult onset Type 1 Diabetes) and she looks forward to more in depth roles for women over 50.
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Wednesday May 28, 2025
Elizabeth Perkins Shares the "Big" Changes in Her Life and Career, Part 1
Wednesday May 28, 2025
Wednesday May 28, 2025
Elizabeth Perkins is an iconic actress and producer that we are thrilled to have join us this week for a two part episode. (Wednesday and Friday).
Elizabeth Perkins has entertained the world through her roles in movies, tv and stage. From Big to Weeds, her talent is boundless. At this stage of life, she is now calling the shots to make herself a priority. That decision has resulted in some big changes in her life.
Elizabeth has moved to the East Coast to create a closer sense of community, to spend time on her mixed media art and to define this next chapter of life. Don't worry, it still includes acting!
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Wednesday May 21, 2025
Creating New Friendships with AARP's Shelley Emling
Wednesday May 21, 2025
Wednesday May 21, 2025
Last week's episode shared how to break up with friends.
This week, we are talking about making new ones.
Our guest this week is AARP's Executive Editor of The Girlfriend and The Ethel, Shelley Emling. The Ethel's new Gathering Groups are a modern and easy way for women 55+ to make new female friends and build a supportive community. The Girlfriend's platform offers the same for the 40+ group.
Think "Bumble BFF" for midlife and beyond.
From online to in person connections, these platforms are offering creative ways to combat loneliness and create new adventures.
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The Ethel: www.aarpethel.com
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Wednesday May 14, 2025
How to Break Up with a Friend: Cool Topics YouTube Series
Wednesday May 14, 2025
Wednesday May 14, 2025
Breaking Up is hard to do, especially when it is with a friend.
On this Cool Topics YouTube Episode, we discuss the best ways to break up with a friends that honor the friendship you had while standing firm in the boundaries you need.
People come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime. It is ok to say that this friendship is no longer healthy for me and we explain the best ways to do that. Please remember, ghosting is not a good option!
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Wednesday May 07, 2025
Learn Ways to Avoid Toxins in Your Everyday Life with Dr. Aly Cohen
Wednesday May 07, 2025
Wednesday May 07, 2025
We can easily get overwhelmed with the conversations around toxins in the environment, our food, and skincare.
What to avoid? What is safe?
This week, we invited Dr. Aly Cohen to explain what is happening when we re exposed to these chemicals. In her new book, DETOXIFY: The Everyday Toxins Harming Your Immune System and How to Defend Against Them, she explains what chemicals may be hiding in our food or exposed in our environment and clear ways to minimize their health impact.
Dr. Cohen also explains how to make small, practical shifts that can substantially increase our quality of life and help to avoid future health risks.
Thanks for listening!
Show Notes: www.hotflashescooltopics.com
Book: DETOXIFY
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Wednesday Apr 30, 2025
Alison Arngrim: From Little House's Mean Girl to International Comedy Star
Wednesday Apr 30, 2025
Wednesday Apr 30, 2025
We all remember Alison Arngrim as the mean bully Nellie Oleson on Little House on the Prairie. However, we didn't know the rest of her story.
Join us this week as we have a light hearted conversation with Alison Arngrim. From stories of her Hollywood family upbringing, her time on Little House, her book and her successful One-Women Comedy Show, she showcases how she is so much more than the mean girl.
Get ready to laugh out loud during this funny episode!
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Alison's Confessions of a Prairie B*tch Tour:
http://spincyclenyc.com/index.php/theater/58-nellie-tour
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Wednesday Apr 23, 2025
How to Manage Money in Midlife with Expert Debra Morrison
Wednesday Apr 23, 2025
Wednesday Apr 23, 2025
Are you afraid of your finances? Does the thought of looking at bank or credit card statements immediately increase your blood pressure?
This week we talking with financial expert Debra Morrison about how to overcome this very real fear of finances. Debra has over 40 years of financial planning and asset management experience, she is an author and the creator of We Can Do It Women.
Debra offers advice on where to start, how to manage you money and finally, how to create prosperity for women over 50.
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Wednesday Apr 16, 2025
Wednesday Apr 16, 2025
Get ready for something new this week!
We are adding a monthly "chat" on a topic that women 50+ can relate to and of course, we will share our opinions. We would love to know what topics you want to hear.
Our first topic: If something happens to you, would you want your partner in another serious relationship? We are honest and say NO. Remember, these are just our opinions and you may want to share your thoughts as you listen. Feel free to email us at hotflashescooltopics@gmail.com or watch this on Youtube and leave a message in the comments.
We will be doing these "chats" once a month and we would love for the community to join us.
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Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
"Ghosts" Rebecca Wisocky Talks Career, Midlife and More
Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
Wednesday Apr 09, 2025
Our guest this week is a ghost. Well, she plays one on the popular CBS comedy series "Ghosts".
Rebecca Wisocky joins us to share some juicy secrets from this season of Ghosts. From what is happening with Hetty Woodstone to her upcoming roles in Sex Lives of College Girls and the Amanda Knox story, we talk about how busy this time of life has been for the actress. We also talk her career beginnings in theater and how she would love to go back.
Rebecca has been really enjoying this time of life and she also talks about roles are opening up for women in midlife and beyond.
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